when R. does something and knows that I will not be happy with it, she immediately comes to me, grabs me and says: I am holding you. then all my anger disappears immediately.
It must be hard to keep a straight face in that circumstance :-)
When my daughter was 3 she had one of these "claw" toys that when you squeezed it it opened the claw at the other end. Once when I asked her if "she'd finished eating yet" she lifted it up and said "Talk to the hand, Dad! Talk to the hand!" :-)