tigg I do hope that you have someone to talk to .... talking things with just one right person can make such a big difference ... there are so many sunsets still to be snapped with your camera. Take care in the heat; it is very hot here too, not by your standards but certainly for the UK
Margie A friend of mine once told me in a time of trouble to do the swiss cheese technique which is like what you are saying. Just make a little hole in the cheese, then gradually another, then another and soon the cheese is all eaten! :)